It's not her fault

Every time people reads my blog, they will start to criticize her after reading my posts. It is something I can't stand. She has done nothing wrong to begin with. She was just being herself throughout the whole time.I beg of you, please do not talk to her about it or tell her to do something/change. I do not want to change the person I love because of myself; it will make me feel really guilty. I want her to change in the future at her own will. I don't care what you say about me or my feelings but I cannot tolerate people bad mouthing the person I love!